Wheeler was a three-sport athlete all throughout high school, being a member of the soccer, hockey and tennis teams all four years. In soccer, she was an All-League selection in 2007 and 2008 and was an All-State All Star in 2008. Wheeler was a member of the National Society of Scholars and was a consistent name on the Headmasters List. She was an Academic All Star and was on the honor roll all four years.